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Temperance Tarot Card Meaning: Upright, Reversed and Love

Nov 11, 2026 · The Editors

Temperance tarot card meaning: the angel pouring water between two cups on card XIV, what it means upright and reversed, in love, as a yes or no, and questions for reflection.

Temperance is card XIV of the major arcana. A winged angel stands with one foot in a pool and one on land, pouring water from one cup into another. The card means balance, moderation and patience — finding the middle way and blending opposites into something that works.

Temperance tarot symbolism

In the classic 1909 artwork:

  • The angel has red wings and a white robe with a triangle inside a square on the chest, often read as spirit held within the material world.
  • The two cups and the water flowing between them stand for mixing and balancing: neither too much nor too little.
  • One foot in the water, one on land — the conscious and the unconscious, feeling and practicality, kept in touch.
  • The path leading to a distant crown on the horizon suggests a long journey taken steadily.
  • The irises beside the pool are linked to Iris, the Greek messenger of the rainbow.

Temperance follows Death (XIII). After an ending comes the slow work of finding a new balance.

Temperance meaning upright

Upright, Temperance means:

  • Balance between competing demands.
  • Moderation — avoiding extremes.
  • Patience and steady progress rather than quick results.
  • Healing and recovery.
  • Cooperation — combining people or ideas into something better.

Temperance reversed

Reversed, the balance is lost:

  • Excess — overdoing something, whether work, spending or indulgence.
  • Impatience and rushing.
  • Conflict between people or between parts of your own life.
  • A need to recalibrate — a sign to step back and rebalance.

Temperance in love

Upright in a love reading, Temperance points to a calm, balanced relationship with give and take, or two people learning to compromise. For someone single, it suggests patience: the right relationship comes when life is in balance. Reversed, it can mean one partner giving more than the other, arguments, or moving too fast.

Temperance tarot yes or no

Most readers count upright Temperance as a yes, with patience — the answer is favourable but will take time. Reversed, it leans towards no, or "not until things settle down".

Number, zodiac and the Temperance tattoo

  • Number: XIV (fourteen).
  • Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
  • As a tattoo, the angel and the two cups are a popular image for recovery and self-control, which is the card's meaning exactly.

Questions for reflection

  • Where am I doing too much, and where too little?
  • What two parts of my life need to be blended rather than kept apart?
  • What would progress look like if I stopped rushing it?

A precision spinning top on a desk is a small reminder of the same idea: balance is not stillness, it is constant small correction. The gilded-edge tarot deck in a tin shows every symbol above. For layouts to use it in, see tarot spreads for beginners.

Frequently asked questions

Is Temperance a yes or no card?

Upright, Temperance is usually read as yes, but with patience. Reversed, it suggests no for now.

What zodiac sign is Temperance?

Temperance is traditionally assigned to Sagittarius.

What does Temperance mean in love?

It means a balanced relationship built on compromise, or patience before the right one arrives. Reversed, it points to imbalance or rushing.

What does Temperance reversed mean?

It means excess, impatience or conflict, and a need to step back and restore balance.